People who pretend they know you... growl!

[Luco El Loco]

Don't you just hate it when people look at you, and decide what sort of person you are from the way you appear to be?

There was this annoying buffoon last week who approached me in a club and started going on about how he used to have low self esteem, and decided because I looked miserable to him and wasn't going round talking to everyone like some desperate try-hard, that I somehow had low self esteem too! I had just been dancing like a loon on the dance floor and was trying to rest a bit and relax. Grrrrr.

Then I met him again this week and he started to go off on one, so I told him: "If you're going to give me a lecture I'm just gonna walk off." He left me alone after that.

Whilst initially I found his arrogance funny, after a while you just want to punch these stupid people who have no bleeding idea about people.

But I think I won't have anymore trouble now, so that's good. I go out to have a good time for goodness' sake!


;D ;D Hooray for crazy dancing!

[Graham]

i get that a lot...people immediatly think you're like them...heh, we attract odd people!!

[smerker]

I hate it when I'm judged in five minutes of meeting someone.

[Luco El Loco]

Whilst it is probably generally true that we assume things from appearance... assuming how the inner workings of someone's mind works is taking it way too far! Grnated, certain cues can indicate what sort of interests a person has, but if they just wear what they like without a particular agenda then it throws all that stuff out the window. Can make things more interesting when you want to get to know somebody though. ;D

[Anarchy]

James- when I first met you I thought you were a little bit of a wigger.l
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definition: a 'wigger' is a white person who believes they are black-(colloquial)
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Then I got to know you a year or so down the line and I got to know- I immeadately took back my pre-jugement.
I found out you were a heart after my own.
anyways I hate it when somebody has nothing to do with you then you have something you like and all of a sudden- they're your best friend. BIG grrrrrrr*snarl*rrrah*howls*grrr